Death seem to bring out either the best in a person or the worst. I've seen both. Try to look at it this way, this is a final gift from the departed... They leave us with the gift of seeing the true nature of people.
I'm so sorry this is your sister, and she is breaking your heart. But you are right, she can't take your memories. I know there must have been things that had special meaning to you and your mother, or items you wanted to share with other family members and your mom's friends.
I'm so sorry this is happening while you are still coping with such a huge loss. |