[bornnygurl]

Arg, I'm so frustrated. I'm originally from New York (thus the screen name) and was planning on going back home for the summer. Well, I finally told my mother about my new baby and now all of the sudden she is trying to guilt me into coming home so she can see her. I don't want to take her home right now because she is so small (I barely take her out now as it is) and she is still working on paper training. Also my mother has a larger Cavalier that is just insane around new dogs. I know this because when I took my doxie girls he would not leave them alone! I also just know my father will have a fit about her going on her wee pads inside and relegate them to go outside or in the garage and I don't want to have her trampling out in the cold and/or snowy weather they are experiencing right now. She keeps making feel guilty saying things like "oh it would be nice to see you and your new baby for my birthday", "oh you should have told me about her sooner" etc. I don't want to go now......but she is making me feel bad......am I being selfish with my new baby?