Gracie sleeps with me now but up until she was 1 she slept in the spare room in her play pen. That is were she would always go when I said ok it bed time! She is 2 years now and she sleeps with me but only because my boyfriend began working nights about a year ago and I needed company
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Lily who is 11 weeks she sleeps in her playpen in the spare room now and I am sure she will sleep in the bed as well if she is ever big enough so I feel comfortable having her in bed.
IT is possible for them to not sleep with you. It just takes a lot of strength to tell them no