OH GIRL! He is WAY too old to be playing games like this. How old are you, if you don't mind me asking? I only ask cuz I think he may be trying to play you and keep you on a string, while he's free to do whatever. You deserve to be NUMBER ONE in your man's life, and he obviously isn't going to give you that.
If it was me, I'd move on,but I know it's easy for me to say that. Keep talking to us, we all can help you navigate this stuff,k?