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Originally Posted by jp4m2  Sweetup&down, I'm going on some assumptions here..the only thing I can offer as a outsider is you need a final conversation w/ him . No crying..no guilt.. just a frank & honest talk... I think you two are very young & if he has not been on his own before or lived w/ you before, the reality of what's about to happen could be to much for him to handle.Just maybe he's afraid of the big "C" word (commitment).Life as you two know it will change...bills, responsibility, accountability to each other, sacrifices,
& a loss of some privacy.. etc.etc...That's some pretty scary stuff.
I'm not excusing his behavior, that text was not the way to end a relationship.
But you do need some clarification so you can at least have a better understanding of what went on....Some times these things happen..but it still hurts like h*ll. Good luck  |
I know..I was hoping that he was just scared of "the reality of whats about to happen" Only my boyfriend and I arent the same age, he is 42 i would have hoped that he realized what he wants by now.
We did talk a bit while he was on his break and he didnt say much other than he wont leave me high and dry, he will help me with bills and stuff until I get settled. I asked him was he cheating and he said of course not. We will still be together and go out and do stuff..
And I said well you wont be there at night, and he said that he will come over and bring bullet...his dog and we will all sleep in the bed like we always do.
He said that he loves me, even though I told him not to even go there. And he ended it with I will talk to you later on tonight.
...So I will post tommorow what he said