Okay, I am just reading this post and I wish I had read it earlier...
I AM one of those people who is purchasing a pup from Sugar's Mom. I am very happy with her and my (soon to get here) new little girl. So, I can first-hand tell you that, there are pups.
Why would you accuse her of lying, because she didn't want to sell a pup to someone who came off rude?
I felt very happy that she was willing to sell one of her pups!
I am a new breeder and am also picky as to where I will let my pups go. That's the way it should be.
When you come across with "none of your business" and calling people liars, you ARE being rude! Bad day or not.
Anyway, it seems that you have a few other "situations" on your hands that need to be dealt with before purchasing a new puppy to breed.
I am sorry but your first impression was not too great!! I am sure you will get another chance to establish yourself on here and maybe you should take the "friendly" approach.