Yep, they are no different than any other teenagers, but annoying as heck isn't it?? Especially when you think of all the things you do for them. Both of my boys are now gone off to college, but I remember those days well.
First, I would explain to them how would you like it if you had to pee and no one would let you go in the bathroom? I would also remind them of what you do for them and let them know you will NOT be doing some of those things if they cannot help you out in return. Pick something that would hurt (them) and stick to it. Like not driving them somewhere they want to go, cooking dinner, laundry...something you do for them that they take for granted and would miss if you stopped doing it. When you say all these things talk to them as if they were adults, not like they are your kids and your mad at them (this is harder than it sounds). They are getting to be young adults and they need to start respecting you. I also think you should let them read this thread, too!! I am sure they are great kids and just need a little "Heads Up"!
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