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Originally Posted by makemepretty I'm sure she meant it as a good thing. I've been married almost 16 years(together since we were 17) and I'm all in favor of trading some nookie for something I want  . It's just fun..yes, I'm sure he'd just give me what I want if I asked but this way is just plain easier sometimes!
Sometimes it just makes light of a situation when you're tired. Hubby will look a little frisky and I'll say "well...maybe...as long as you fix the front door today". I could totally see me saying "Honey, I'll make sure you get lucky every day this week if I can get a new puppy!". LOL It'd be a win win for both parties if you ask me. |
Exactly. It really isn't like a monetary exchange--at least not when you're married (same here almost 16 years).
It is kind of a light-hearted, playful thing.
I get whatever I want no matter what

, the other just sweetens the deal