My hubby is the most generous person I know.
I don't even have to ask for things ... all I have to do is say I like something and he buys it for me. I didn't have to beg for all 3 of my puppies. I said I wanted them and he said let's go buy them. But sometimes we do play around and he'll say stuff like, "Well if you want to buy Tia that new dress ... it's gonna cost you" or I'll say, "If you vacuum for me, I'll give you a little surprise <wink> <wink>" but it's TOTALLY joking and in good humor. I'm very blessed ... my hubby is so generous and giving. He's a wonderful guy and I just love him to pieces.
We don't look at our money like MY money and HIS money. It's OUR money and we are both equal when it comes it spending/buying.