Just a question, what (besides a "partnership") would you be out by cutting ties with this breeder? It sounds to me as if that would be the best option for you both as you clearly have some differences of opinion here.
I think maybe the part that gets me is the "every other dog has had her, may as well try yours." I just find it kind of shocking that this breeder or any other would be so unconcerned for the girl that "every other dog + yours" would even have a shot in the dark at "getting her."
(In which case spaying seems like a blessing for her sake.)
I guess what I'm getting at is, anyone who would just let any dog that comes along go at it and worry about the actually parentage later (
) isn't someone I'd want to be tied to.
(Just my personal opinion...)
