Your not wrong and he is not wrong.... you may not want to get one now and he may be feeling a need to fill a great void. You both need to support eachother. Maybe try going with him, and "just look." Put your foot down and insist that you two meet half way on the issue... that you can't bring a new baby home right now, but that you'll look with him... maybe by you both giving a little you can see where eachother are coming from. And then you won't both be angry, which is normal, but can help each other work through it.
Who knows visiting puppies may help, him or you decide what the next move is... he may get there and have major cold feet and feel serious remorse? Just support him as you would want to be supported and ask the same of him.
Weather or not that will work??? Well thats another story. But you two need each other support right now.
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