Thanks for the links!! Yes, I agree also that the dogs choose their order. I just see no clear cut order in our home. It doesn't really matter because as I said they get along beautifully except for the one incident, which was my fault anyhow. I just find this pack order thing very interesting. We have had Cooper one year and Carley since September, maybe it takes a while for the order to work out, but more probably THEY have it worked out and that is all that is important
Or, hey maybe it is the same as me and my husband's relationship, we both agree we are equal partners..but underneath we both know who Really is in charge
Thanks for your input!!