I called the ER and they said that I should come in but am not symtomatic yet and if I didn't want to come in that was fine too.

My only family is my sister down here and she's prego with 5 kids she'd have to get out of bed and drive over here to sit with mine. She's like 20min from me. I really hate to get her out of bed and make her drag her kids out of bed too. I tired to see if my neighbor would sit with my kids while I went but she says she has a migraine and doesn't want to. (Even though I do it for her all the time with a migraine.) There's no way around it. I have to take the kids with me if I go. I think I'm going to see if the pain subsides and the clots stop. The nurse did tell me the signs that I need to go in imediatly.