i think sometimes things can be taken in the wrong way as we cant hear a tone of voice, we just read words and take it the way we THINK it was written and sometimes its wrong.
i also think sometimes different countrys have different views due to what WE think is normal or not and should remember just cos are country doesnt allow this or that dont attack another cos they do, ie tail docking is always a heated topic, in the uk we dont do it anymore so when we see a post about it it can get are backs up as its now the norm not to do it but we should remember that we use to do it and we didnt bat an eye to it when it was the norm then, ive learnt this on here.
when ive had a heated debate on things and i think the person may of taken what ive said the wrong way ive sent the person a pm and explained how i ment it and cleared things up with them
things at times will always get a bit heated on here as we all protect are babies, you just try telling a mum that her child has got big ears and see what happens lol