My family is REALLY frustrating me right now, why dont they get it that i dont want my baby fed puppy food or catfood or whatever else they try to send his way when im not looking? Why is it so hard to just play and hold him and let ME worry about feeding him? 
My brothers fiance told me after i walked into the door at my parents house "bring toby over here right NOW please"..... exscuse me? how is that in any way nice ? there was no hi how are you, just that statement.... I told her "NO he is getting crate trained" so she proceeded to go over to the crate and TAKE HIM OUT!!!! after i just said NO?!!! I didnt yell at her, but i spoke VERY firmly that he goes back in his crate and he doesnt come out untill i say so.... in other words "get your slimy hands off my dog"...
Then My brother got desert (ice cream and cookies) and put the dish right in front of toby's face inviting him to have some!!!!  

  after i said NO PEOPLE FOOD !!! I said in a very firm voice "NO" to this too...... and all the while his fiance (whom i REALLY dont like, she is trying to take my place in my families heart, everythign that WAS mine is NOW HERS.... so there is animosity there) anyways, she is reaming me and talking to my parents and telling anyone who will listen that i am a raving bitch.....
AND to top this all off, my uncle put toby on the ground in front of teh cat food dish!!! i said "no" again, but he IGNORED me and pushed toby closer to the dish!!!!!  

  Why in the world does family NOT listen??? I know what is best for my dog, and the stuff they are doing wil make him sick and not crate trainable!!! 
OK, thanks for listening to me rant and rave, i really needed to get my frustrations out before i go into the "snake pit" on christmas.......