I don't usually like to say a lot when it comes to controversial discussion as everyone have their own opinions that they are entitled to but since you posted this thread, please be open minded to what people might say. There are some people who ask for advices and then when it is offered, they reply in a rude way. There are also people who are waiting to pounce on people (why?I don't know) but in general, 90% of YT members are very sincere in offering their opinions and advices.
My opinion is, if you think you are not able to make peace with Remmie, rehome him is the better way to go. You might not love him 100% or at least 99% for what he is but I am sure there will be a family that will truly treasure him for what he is. It is better for Remmie and for you in the long run. There are many people opposing to rehoming but in some cases, it might be the best thing for the dog BUT choose your new family seriously. You want him to go to a home that can provide the very basic care that he needs; i.e. lots of love and attention, good food, vet checks. If subconsciously you are not providing him the love he deserves because he is 'naughty', he might be acting out to get more attention. Just like a human kid. If he goes to a home that truly loves him, he might change out of their love and patience, you never know. Hence, choosing the right new family is utmost important and you have to be very objective about it. Drill them with questions if you have to. In my opinion, I'd rather rehome my dog to a stranger that knows about the breed or has another yorkie than give it to my relative who doesn't really know how to take care of them. They might say how good they can be but you never know...its just words. JMO. Wish you the best of luck. |