I use Rosebud Salve on my lips and LOVE it
Also every night I put Vaseline on my hands then put socks on my hands for about an hour while I'm watching tv. Rinse them in cool (not hot) water and they feel a lot better. Hot water is extremely drying so my dermatologist told me to stop showering in scalding water (I like my water hot) and use luke-warm water instead. It's helping quite a bit.