Not that this is the same, but I haven't been on this site for a year because I lost my dear husband to cancer. It has taken a year to feel alive. He died with Chloe and Lacey in his lap. I treasure this memory and I have found that I should not try to stop the hurt, just fill it with good memories. You don't want to forget, you want to remember the good times. I will feel the same about my two yorkies. They are precious, I don't want to forget them, remember them with love and joy. Your beloved pet is the same, remember with joy and with sadness, embrace it and it will eventually help. Good luck. |