im so sorry i am not in the same situation but a close sit. but my husband left one night and didnt tell me he was even leaving and i was asleep well my daughter who head him leave came and said dada and so i got up and low and behold he want there, and so i beeped him and told him off and he said dumb stuff and i go tthe truth out of him and i even seen this kid later the next week and i told him about it and he said yeah he was here. but the fact that hes lying about it, is suspicious. i mean why lie if he knows hes introuble then dont lie and accept your punishment. but i dont know i was gonna leave with my kids because im worth more than that but i stayed and things have slightly changed but we are working on it every day, i would be pissed and i would stick to my guns until you are level headed and think it over. and think what you want to do. and you keep your foot down on him, and you let him know he isnt running over you , treating you like nothing, or making you feel like a fool. if i was there i would smack him around for you, but since im not ill sit here and think about really hard and maybe somebody will smack him upside his head for me. i just hate to be or see any one in this position. uhhhh men who do they think they are sometime. the king of the universe, uhhh i could go forever. uhhh
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