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Originally Posted by Fulrtonchigirl Well, I'm sorry i have not been here lately but as you can tell ive been having issues! Well, he came home from work and i gave him the cold shoulder all day untill it really got to him. He grabbed me and told me he is sorry to forgive him. He started to cry. I told him no it's not that simple. I told him i really was concerned and i thought something bad happened. I was thinking in my head how could i live if something bad happened to him? While i was worried about him he had some chicks breast probably in his mouth? I told him what would have happened if i never got a ride home? I'd be stranded. He told me he forgot....I looked at him and said, " How can you forget about your family? How could a BI?c? Be that important that you cant remember us? I cant understand? I told him to tell his friend thanxs because i will never ever have trust or respect for him again! I asked him if his friend told him how i was almost in tears when i called looking for him and i hoped he felt like sh??! I kept on to the point he went to the garage and cried. I ignored him for a couple days untill i seen he probably WAS really sorry. He does know that the strip bar is FORBIDDEN! He just was stupid enough to listen to his friend and not cover his tracks well.. Anyways, My birthday was yesturday and i just wanted to be on good terms..Thought i'd just let you guys know whats up?? Thanx for the help, I really do appriciate it!!! |
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Sigh.*** I don't know about this one. Tied up a little too nicely. I would never say you should just give up and leave him but.......maybe there are still some issues that weren't dealt with? Perhaps some pre-marital counseling to air out and get rid of some problems? And his friend, who was totally clueless to their bar night celebrating his 21st birthday - now you don't trust HIM? Wow. The friend isn't in the relationship, your fiance is. I hope you two can work it out, but I hope you know too that just because you love someone and they are a good father, they may not be the one for you. We all grow up, and sometimes apart.