Wow. We are here to support each other not make each other suicidal. My advice to some posters is that if you wake up on the wrong side of the bed go back to bed & try it again. At least word it more nicely-Recap-Supportive not give up/roll over & die. Some people make mistakes & learn, some don't, Fulrtonchigirl-I really hope the best for you & your man, I know you have faith in him so I do too. Good Luck. Maybe your husband would like to read this forum.