Just so you know....it is ALWAYS someone else's fault. I can only say that I hope he truly learned from this and won't do it again. It is terrible to see families torn apart....it is also terrible to see them miserable and together for the wrong reasons. Some do learn and some learn to be more sneaky and have more than one lie prepared (which was his case). If I were you, I'd like to know what "friend" and HOW MUCH MONEY HE BLEW THERE
. My husband's ex-wife is a stripper (we have had their daughter since she was 3 and is now almost 14). She is on her 4th divorce (my hubby was #2). Anyway, she tells me how men will spend their entire paychecks. She says the majority of them have wedding bands on. I am only telling you this so if this is where he was....it can be addicting and and very costly. I hope he gets on the right path and trust can be earned and well deserved again.