we all understand your pain .... Quote: FlDebra "As with any loss, you don?t really get over it. You get through it and assimilate the experience, so that the life and death of the one you love becomes part of your life story?part of what makes you uniquely you."
[quote=JiggityJig] There is a saying that grief stretches out your heart, and leaves you with a greater capacity for love and happiness in the future. I really believe that, and I hope you eventually find it to be true in your own life.[/quote]
This is so true ... I have to live by that mantra daily ... I shall never get over my husband's death, but I am slowly getting through it ... he is by NO means forgotten ...
Barb made you a really nice offer ... go for it ... let love in your heart again ... maybe not tomorrow, but a few months from now???? |