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Originally Posted by yorkieusa Bless your heart. I'm so sorry! Please don't blame yourself, though, because we ALL make these same kind of mistakes. Sometimes we are lucky and there are no consequences, except a lesson to not do it again and sometimes there are dire circumstances such as in your case. It is not your fault. It was just an accident. Please know that I'm thinking of you. Blaming yourself is a natural thing. We all feel we have to blame someone when we are in such deep grief. There is nothing that can be gained from your doing this to yourself and it will not help the situation. Try very hard to think of other memories of her and remember those. |
I can't say anything better than this. Hugs to you Debbie.