well I think he looks absolutley adorable..Nothing wrong with putting a bow on him....before I cut Timmy's bangs I always had his hair up. Tell your husband its not like they put a girly bow on him.
I'm so lucky my fiancee didn't fuss when I used to put Timmy's hair up. He actually thought he looked cute because we were able to see his beautiful eyes. It was my idea to cut his bangs and daddy wan't happy about it but I was tired of seeing his hair covering his beautiful eyes whenever I didn't have his hair up
Although I cut his bangs I'm still able to put his hair up in a bow or in a band because I just cut the little parts that fell in front of his eyes and I cut them short so whenever his hair is up you cannot see little hairs hanging all over the place.