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Originally Posted by mizzwanned That reminds me so much of Teddy, he is the excat same way. He is always getting himself into trouble, always so playful and running away. Well when I first saw Teddy I thought he was just so cute and I was so happy I got him. As soon as I took him out the crate, he was shipped to me in he was so curious. I could tell he had a lot of personality and he does. I fell in love with him right away. He is a total moma's boy and my bf always comments on how he loves me more  Everytime I come home he doesn't even let me put my things down and he's jumping all over the place.
With London she was very quiet and much tinier than Teddy was. She was very sleepy and still and it took me a little to get used to her because her personality is very different to Teddys but they are like ppl, they all have diff. personalities. So now I am totally in love with her and she's so adorable and shy but can get super hyper when she wants. She's a little more independent but recently she has been wanting me to pick her up a lot and gets happy when I come home. |
Oh my gosh, Stedman and Teddy sound SO MUCH ALIKE! Steddy is the same way - if I leave...whenever I come home he is FREAKING out, jumping up at me (although he doesn't get very high LOL) - he is just a TOTAL momma's boy!! Hubby teases me and says that if you looked up momma's boy in the dictionary, you would see Stedman's picture by it

LOL Which is SO the truth!

But I gotta admit, I love it

Hah!
But this is ONE reason though (probably the ONLY reason) why I am kind of hesitant to get another baby

I want one, and am SURE that in the hopefully NEAR future I will have another one - but I am just so afraid that the new baby's personality will be SO DIFFERENT...and that I won't get used to it

We just LOVE and spoil Stedman
SO MUCH... and I am just so afraid that I won't be able to love another baby the same way I love him

And I DO NOT want one or the other to feel left out. I think this SAME thing is what is bothering my husband about getting a little girl - although of course he refuses to admit it
Also, it freaks me out because everyone I know is CONSTANTLY telling me that Stedman is going to be soooooo JEALOUS and depressed if I get another baby, because he won't be the center of attention anyone. I mean we give him
ALOT of attention, almost CONSTANT attention - plus I am here all day because I work in my home, so he gets DOUBLE the attention

lol. I don't even HAVE another baby yet and I ALREADY feel bad because I don't want him to feel left out or jealous, or like he is put "second" because mommy and daddy have a new baby. I just don't want him to feel hurt or jealous in any way - it makes me SO sad just THINKING about it!