you love him enuf to marry him .... sooooooooo JMO This just my opinion ..... Take on your husband-to-be's name ... itz the right thing to do ... what last name would you give your kids? You will drive the teachers nutz at school ... As a teacher, I had kids and when the moms came up the last name was different (most were not married though) ... very confusing.
However, make sure you change it everywhere legally so it does not mess you up later ... Social Sec., driver's license, checkbook, at work, credit cards, passport, health insurance, and I am sure there are more places ....
there were only 2 girls in my family and that was that ... some times I will use my maiden name as a middle name .... but itz not all that important ... when you get married, you become Mr. and Mrs. "in love" ....
good luck on your forth coming marriage ... |