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Originally Posted by hunniebunnie imho, your lengthy, defensive response was a bit over kill to a simple question. the simple question being, verbatim: "but did you not speak to people, have a mentor, do a bunch of reading before you got your dog pregnant?" from that one liner question, you assumed disrespect, insult and lack of compassion. nevermind that the question was followed up, by the same person with valid and reasonable recommendations. just as not every pregancy accident is due to owner neglect. not every question is laced with insult and contempt just because it's not exactly the response you're looking for. but then again, that's just my opinion. you are free to disagree and we can leave it at that. 'nuff said from me. anyhoo, good luck with sabrina and her puppies. |
Okay so I feel as though you are attacking me for defending myself...if your going to quote someone verbatim, don't leave anything out...what Trouble really said was "
I don't want to sound mean, but did you not speak to people, have a mentor, do a bunch of reading
before you got your dog pregnant?"...does this question not sound like she assumed I was an irresponsible pet owner who purposely got my dog pregnant without doing any research??? because that's how I took it. Her first sentence in her question was "I DON'T MEAN TO SOUND MEAN" that right there tells me she is going to say something sarcastic, which she did. She assumed I GOT my dog pregnant without doing any research, that is why I told her had she followed my thread from the beginning there would have been no need for such a sarcastic & dumb (in my opinion) question...She asked me if I did any reading or spoke to anyone "BEFORE I GOT MY DOG PREGNANT" sounds like an assumption to me, like she just figured I purposely got my dog pregnant as if I'm that irresponsible...now your opinion is your opinion, I know that I can respond how I feel is appropriate to certain things being said, and I will not apologize for defending myself, or offending someone else, especially if they started with the insults, YES TO ME THAT WAS AN INSULT, no matter what she said after, I didn't even really read what she said after because it didn't matter then she already pissed me off, so like I said before, if you don't have any good advice to give and all you come on here for is to criticize people then stay away from my threads because I will respond and you will not like it. No threats just telling people how it is on my side of the fence, I'm not one of these people who will tolerate the B.S. on this forum so please stay away from my threads with that negative stuff, OKAY!!!