[abbie's mom]

...if you really do not want a dog larger than, say, 4lbs fully grown, and you KNEW the reaction you'd get here for wanting to return a puppy, like it's a purse or something, WHY does it matter what we think? Why didn't you just return the pup, and not mention it, here? Why do the opinions here (or anywhere else) matter, if you feel strongly about what you want?

Repeating the consensus: If you're not happy and don't love her like she deserves to be loved - PLEASE either return her to the breeder, or rehome her where she'll be enjoyed.