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Originally Posted by nydia I'm sorry if you didn't like my response but I think it was very necessary...more often than not I read threads from concerned pet owners asking for advice and all they get is bashed on, so yes for the people who love to bash instead of give advice it was necessary...I don't need nobody trying to critize me as a pet owner, I take very good care of my dogs, to me they are like my children which I don't have any.
As far as I can't expect people to have followed my thread...I sure don't expect them to insult me or label me as a neglectful pet owner either!!! People shouldn't make the assumption that everybody on yorkie talk is an experienced breeder, or is a breeder to began with, if they were they wouldn't be asking for advice. I'm just a pet owner who had an unexpected pregnancy...as for neglecting my dogs, a $3500+ c-section is far from neglect. Again I will repeat myself, certain people on this forum don't mind being bashed, I'M NOT ONE OF THOSE PEOPLE!!! I won't bash you no matter what your issue is, I don't expect to be bashed. It's called having mutual respect for one another, even a little compassion for somebody else's problems are welcome here but if you try disrespect me you will get the same treatment right back....I refuse to let anybody on this forum whether an expert or not insult me, so as long as we can keep our negative comments to ourselves when someone is asking for advice then we won't have to worry about things like this...don't you agree!!!...if not then please tell me what I have said in this thread that you don't understand or that doesn't make sense and I will try and correct it, other than that I think I'm being honest and fair, I don't appreciate anyone trying to insult me and I won't stand for it!!! |
imho, your lengthy, defensive response was a bit over kill to a simple question. the simple question being, verbatim: "but did you not speak to people, have a mentor, do a bunch of reading before you got your dog pregnant?" from that one liner question, you assumed disrespect, insult and lack of compassion. nevermind that the question was followed up, by the same person with valid and reasonable recommendations. just as not every pregancy accident is due to owner neglect. not every question is laced with insult and contempt just because it's not exactly the response you're looking for. but then again, that's just my opinion. you are free to disagree and we can leave it at that. 'nuff said from me. anyhoo, good luck with sabrina and her puppies.