I use Buddy Wash (shampoo) and Buddy Rinse (conditioner) by Cloud Star on Stedman. I get it from Amazon (best price I've found so far) however, it comes directly from KV Vet Supply. I also use MalAcetic (DermaPet) Conditioning Spray on him (I spray this on him after he has been towel dried, when I get him out of the bath - while he is still wet) - I do this right before I blow dry him.
I have tried MANY different shampoos/conditioners, and this has worked the best BY FAR on his hair
And as for the MalAcetic, well - I'll never be without it
I'm not the one to ask about bows though - Stedman won't even leave so much as a RUBBER BAND in his hair, lol