Excuse my candor, but if i were to sum things down to the basics, those who had bad experiences in their past will either choose to
A. work beyond it and move on with their lives becoming better than their past
OR
B. use it as excuses for bad behavior in the present.
Kristy, you're making a CHOICE for yourself to do A or B. No matter the outcome, the responsibility of that choice is yours alone. Just try not to take down other people along with you in the process. |