Life is not easy for anyone. Everybody has choices to make every day.
It is up to you as an individual, a wife and most of all a mother to put the past behind you and move on. If you feel you need to confront your parents, then speak your peace and move on. If you cannot personally confront them then write them a letter and let them know how you feel. It is up to you if you choose to send it to them or not. A lot of times just putting thoughts to paper really clears your head. I would recommend writing in a journal everyday, let your thoughts go and put everything down, don't edit, don't worry about spelling.
It is not an easy thing to do to let your true feelings out, but it is a good exercise and good for your soul. Just buy some spiral notebooks, they are inexpensive. As you finish one, you can burn it or save to read at a later date.
All the counslers in the world can't help you, until you decide you want to change and have a good life. It is always your choice.
Good Luck & Happy 2007 |