I Agree with Luvmysissy.
There is only so long you can use your child hood as an excuse for your poor decisions.
As she said there comes a time when we have to make a conscious decision about our own lives.
Even if you had the worst parents in the world and they were terrible role models, you are an adult now, look around you, see how other people do things, choose some good role models.
Growing up doesn't just happen, we have to make that decision, and then when you are confronted with an issue, ask your self, "what would so and so do?"
The fact that you are asking here, shows that you do value other peoples opinions, and you are trying to do things right.
As for confronting the other people. That is up to you, if it will make you feel better than go ahead, but if you don't believe it will make any difference then why put yourself through it.
I believe in you, but you need to believe in yourself. |