My husband and I quit drinking and smoking 3 years ago so we don't go out but what we have done since then is every New Years Eve we splurge on our selfs and buy Lobsters , Shrimp,and HUGE Crab legs and celebrate with our expensive food that we don't normally buy through the year. Then we rent a few movies.
Works for me!!! I love my husband much more with a "food" belly rather than a beer belly
(makes for a much happier relationship as well) !