Well somtimes it is harder to start with bows, so you may want to just put a small rubber band in her hair. There is not quite as much to grip for her to pull it out. After you get that much acomplished....I used this site and she was terrific. By bow is beautiful and I also ordered some bands from her. Also, included in your order she gives instructions for putting a top knot in. I checked and she does ship internationally. Good luck!
http://www.lawdogbows.com/