[stephluvsangel6]

when our son passed my husband had taken a week off of work to help me with him and then he went to work for a littel more than a week and then my son passed when he was exactly three weeks but he had been ion the hospital for 3 days all ready and my husband had taken off and then after he passed he took a week more, he needed it though, and we were so broke and it fell right after christmas to but we made it and it was tough being behind on everything, so i had to go to work, i went to work before i was even healed from havig him, on top of that i was sick with being diagnosed with cervical cancer which was actually starting to spread, they said uncommon for that type but anyway we are still struggling everyday but hey i got caught up and we did it, and she can to but it takes a lot in all aspects not just having money to pay, you have to have the want to pay your bills, you have to feel great about yourself, and this one can go forveer but if you have low self esteem you either want to shop or not cook or littel ways to spend money and you cant do that, its hard but i do agree with a couple posts how did she get this far behind ? but you know sometimes its all it takes and youll starightne up with a littel help, so best of luck for kristy

ps sorry about my novel life story, i just wanted to express things we all go through and still come up on top.