I can't say that you shouldn't get back with your boyfriend if that is what he is aiming at but I can tell you that there is someone better for you out there. The RIGHT guy wouldn't have broken up with you in the first place.
I once had my heart broken and managed to get over it by imagining the jerk in boxer shorts, grinning (toothless) at me like an idiot with his hand down his shorts scratching his twins. I made him look ridiculous and undesirable in my mind and eventually I started thinking of him as ridiculous and undesirable. I don't remember where I learned about that but I sure appreciated knowing it. You can make up your own scenario. Hope this helps.
Hugs
Lou
P.S. No matter what happens you WILL stop hurting eventually. And you CAN stop thinking about him. |