is all how you treat and care for them! So, I can't see that one is more loveable/affectionate than the others, because in my experience, they have all been this way.
i wish it was like that, but it's not.
It's all about personality.
When i got my male, he was super hyper, he didn't liked to be held.
More than that, he HATED to be held, he wine, cried and did anything to get out.
He didn't liked kisses, all he wanted to do is play.
He slept on the other side of the bed.
He is very independent, most of the day he is by himself, in different rooms.
My girl got exactly the same treat from me, and she is 100% opposite.
She LOVE to be held all the time, she like to take kisses and to give kisses.
She enjoy to be near me.
She sleep very close to me, and always try to hug me at night