You are in such a tough situation! I sure hate to see things start out poorly with your future in-laws. Surely they understand that you can't leave him alone for several days. Maybe you can call them and say you've changed your mind and are going to do everything in your power to find a sitter for him because family comes first and you want to be part of their lives.
Then, call at the last minute and tell them you just couldn't find anyone to care for him, and you will miss them so much, but you can't leave him home alone. He would die! Maybe they'll let you bring him anyway then...
I hesitate to post this 'cause I am not a sneaky person, but they've put you in this hard place. This wasn't your choice. |