Been There.. Terri,
I haven't been through exactly what you went through with dear Bandit, but I have lost two very precious cats in the past years and never thought I'd ever get over losing them. But, there is such a huge love in my heart for animals, that it cannot be denied. Why deprive some other dear child of fur of a wonderful home and love because of fear, allowing that to happen gives death the credit it does not deserve.
You be brave for little Tucker, he'll need you. He will never take Bandit's place in your heart and you won't want him to, but your heart is very big and you've got lots of room for another little precious soul. |