Sorry you are having a bad day -- but it is early and plenty of time for it to turn into a much better day! Just looking at the pics in your avatar would make a good day for me! Some people do say hurtful things without thinking. Sometimes they are hurting themselves and do not know how to handle it so they lash out at someone else -- sometimes someone they really care about. Don't let their problems bring you down. It is a joyous time of year and there are so many wonderful things in our lives to make up for the downers! Merry Christmas to you and your beautiful little ones!