Well said, Kathryn -- none of us knows the whole story about another and even if we do it is still not ours to judge. Sometimes a person just has to do what their heart tells them to do.
I love your little Chynna and if she can bring some more happiness into your lives -- well that is a ring well spent! If she eats too much, I will always buy some more of your clothes!
Seriously, I know you will give your girls a Merry Christmas and Chynna is a family gift herself. So, don't let any negatives ruin your holiday. You have many, many well wishes and CONGRATULATIONS on your newest member of the family. She is a doll!