The trip to Tennessee is not really the problem, the problem is that we havn't been able to give him the much needed attention that he needs and deserves, and when we move to Tennessee, our schedules will be much more harder on us than now, I will have school, job (both Full time), and my husband possibly have two jobs, so I know there is no way we will be able to care to Lex. I wish I could keep him, but I want him to have for suffer