| 
  I'm so sorry to hear that.  I have a 2 pounder myself and completely understand why you would be worried about that happening again. I am with you...screw the costs, you have to do what it takes.  Unfortunately, you DO have to look at the reality of the situation (darn that realist!) and only YOU know what is best for little Tia.  Best of luck and hugs to you both!  |