Thanks girls!
Hiring a cleaning lady is out of the question..it's really not in our budget. It's not that I don't clean..it's just that he says I don't clean. He's very anal with his cleaning ways, and when this all began and I told him that I'll clean during the day he was asking me "well how do you clean?"..literally wanting to know the steps of how I clean! We got into an arguement on the way home tonight actually over this.
It started when I told him I'm going to bring Gizmo over during the day when I'm at home so him and Rocky can play, plus he can get used to my house so when my parents go out of town next summer, he'll be comfortable here (last time he freaked out). MY boyfriends response was "As long as you clean up after him" so I said "OK DAD...I wasn't asking your permission, I was telling you" so it just kinda went from there, and he brought up how HE cleans the house and I supposedly don't. Everything he named he does, I'm like "I do that, I do that too, etc". So then hes all "well I dont like coming home to a messy house" and I said "well I don't like you messing up the kitchen after I clean it!" Then he says he was going to clean up his mess later, and I said he shoulda done it asap. I had the last word.
Were better now (we honestly don't fight much, so that's kinda big for us, LOL). Hopefully tomarrow we'll talk about it more. It's just pissing me off because we've discussed this before, and I told him how his remarks make me feel, and he said he'll work on them and "allowing" me to do the cleaning, but he has no progress what-so-ever.
