Well I've been married to a perfectionist for 17 years. I have lupus, so I haven't been able to do much in a while. I've always been a stay at home mom. We used to have the same things happen to us when we were first married. I couldn't believe how perfect things had to be. My mother was the same way.
Well he does most of it now and our daughter helps. You guys just need to sit down and talk. Talking about it can really help. You may have to talk about it a thousand times, but each time it can get better.
