I didn't see anyone being hard on you.....just people concerned with the welfare of your baby, which you should be thankful for. You say you know all the dangers...that's good. A lot of people don't, and YT members were just wanting to make sure that you're prepared to handle things if they don't go ideally.
She's a very sweet baby. Good luck to her!
(sorry Jackson's Mommy....we were posting at the same time!
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