If we had it to do over again, we'd leave a puppy alone and get them used to it RIGHT AWAY. Someone was with Emma at all times for the first 10 weeks we had her, because right away, she would get upset if we left. We thought she would outgrow it, but it only got worse over time, because she became so dependent on us being home or taking her with us all the time. Now, Emma has separation anxiety, and living in a condo, we CAN'T leave her alone sometimes.
If I'd had YT when we first got Emma, I absolutely would have done things differently, and there's a good chance she wouldn't have the separation issues. It has taken us months and lots of hard work to be able to leave her while we went to work without her completely freaking out with barking and screaming. Some days are just bad days for her and she'll do this for awhile anyway, but all of us have come quite far and put in lots of effort to help her with her problem. And it's working-in baby steps!
Our next puppy will be left for short periods IMMEDIATELY after we bring her home, so that she gets acclimated to being by herself. Don't wait-start leaving your puppy home now so that you're not contributing to the problem. She'll be ok with you leaving, especially if you give her that "special treat" (like a Kong with peanut butter that she just LOVES) and be on your way. It will make both of you happier and healthier!
Good luck! |