I must have a dirty mind - when I saw your post - 'masturbating male by Peri
winkle' I thought this was going to be funny -
I'm sorry he's hurt

- and it IS a dominance thing - my Chanel's little 'winkle' LOVES her humpy toy Magilla - it just feels good but she hardly ever does it anymore so I haven't put him up -
I hope your little guy feels better soon - they really can go to town on their toys - so I also think it's a good idea to put up the toys he really wants to date.